Some say that the longer we wait, the more happiness we receive. Indeed, in endless darkness, it is only expectation and hope that guide us out.
Speak slowly when facing urgent matters, clearly when facing big matters, and humorously when facing small matters. Be cautious with uncertain matters, avoid making false promises, and never say things that hurt others. Share joy according to the occasion, but don't vent your sorrows to everyone. It is best to mind others' business less, reflect on your own matters internally, And focus on taking action in the present.
Sometimes, problems seem complex, yet the answers are quite simple.
No one can be successful and happy throughout their entire life, but maintaining an open-minded and magnanimous attitude can, at least, increase our joy and reduce our suffering. Similarly, no one is destined to be a failure and suffer forever, but a mindset of constant worry and petty calculation will certainly magnify pain and diminish happiness.