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Disrespecting others is, at its core, a lack of respect for oneself.
Meet aggression with gentleness, deceit with sincerity, and anger with reason. — Jin Ying
Better to share coarse food with good people than to feast with the wicked.
People are grouped by their nature; things are gathered by their essence.
Mountains may fall, and waters may flow, but relying on yourself is unshakeable.
Give others the opportunity to help you, letting them enjoy the joy of giving and you the joy of receiving.
Suspecting and rejecting others is actually an inability to accept oneself.
Do not force guests to browse through your family photo albums.
Friendship can never be a transaction; it requires the purest form of selflessness.
Never assume that those you meet are more foolish or more easily deceived than you.
Judging others is often a sign of a lack of self-affirmation.
When you truly affirm yourself, you will have the magnanimity to affirm others.
A person's greatest bankruptcy is despair, and their greatest asset is hope.
Everything we have today is the result of our past thoughts.
Never reveal your heart until you have understood the depths of another person.
To do one's utmost for others is, in the end, to do one's utmost for oneself. — Roskin
As long as you are willing to praise others, you will be the greatest winner.
To abandon a loyal friend is to abandon one's most precious life.
Avoid excessive self-defense, but feel free to clarify your views and choices when necessary.
When advising a friend privately, be sure to praise them in public.
Only those who keep their eyes on the horizon can find the right path.
Important matters should never be hindered by trivialities.
The world is not ruled by mockers, but by those who can endure criticism and keep moving forward.
There are no desperate situations, only people who feel desperate about their circumstances.
原文中文
不尊重他人，本质上是对自己的不尊重。
人好刚，我以柔胜之；人用术，我以诚感之；人使气，我以理屈之。——金缨
宁愿与好人共食粗茶淡饭，也不愿与坏人共赴奢华筵席。
人以群分，物以内聚。
靠山山会倒，靠水水会流，唯有依靠自己才是永恒的依靠。
给予他人帮助你的机会，让他享受助人的快乐，同时也让你享受被帮助的幸福。
对他人的怀疑与排斥，其实是无法接纳自我。
不要强迫客人翻阅你的家庭相册。
友谊绝非交易，它需要最彻底的无私。
永远不要轻视身边的人，不要认为他们比你愚蠢或容易被误导。
对他人的评判，往往反映了自我认同的缺失。
当你真诚地肯定自己，你便会有更大的胸怀去肯定他人。
一个人最大的破产是绝望，最大的资产是希望。
我们今日所拥有的一切，皆是过往思想的结晶。
在未了解对方的底细之前，切勿交出你的真心。
为别人尽最大的力量，最后就是为自己尽最大的力量。——罗斯金
只要肯开口赞美别人，你终将成为最大的赢家。
抛弃忠实的朋友，无异于抛弃生命中最珍贵的宝藏。
不必过度进行自我辩解，但可以适时澄清是非与观点。
私下劝诫朋友时，务必在大庭广众之下称赞对方。
唯有目光远眺地平线的人，才能寻得正确的道路。
重要的事情不应被琐碎的杂事所牵绊。
世界并非掌握在嘲笑者手中，而是掌握在那些能经受住批评、不懈前行的人手中。
世上没有绝望的处境，只有对处境绝望的人。
