Among all the easiest things in the world, procrastination requires the least effort.
Life is like a roller coaster, with its peaks and valleys, which means that regardless of whether current circumstances are good or bad, they are only temporary. Love may begin with temptation, but eventually, it settles into warmth. That warmth is the light left on in a house late at night, the medicine handed to you when you are ill, or the shoulder to lean on when you are sad... The flames of love cannot remain intensely passionate forever.
Many worries and pains are actually quite easy to resolve; if you are willing to change your perspective and mindset, you will discover a different side of things. Therefore, when facing setbacks, it is worth viewing temporary difficulties as the darkness before dawn. As long as you maintain a positive attitude to observe and reflect, you will find that reality is far from as terrible as imagined. A change in perspective makes the world much more beautiful!
If both parties can love sincerely from now on, why dwell on the past? Digging too deep into the past can only cause more pain to your partner. Looking at it from another angle, is someone who obsessively seeks to uncover your past truly loving you sincerely? Many people end up in tragic situations because they speak their blunt truth without considering the timing or the person.