使用 "be with" 结构来描述一种内在的心理状态。
Please be close to me, or stay away from me. — Anne Babei
She and I are both people with a sense of departure. Always accepting leaving, always ready to leave. — Anne Babei, "The Red Spider Lily"
We should truly experience and practice things, record and share them, but not use them to prove our strength. Truly maintain and support relationships with some people, but without attaching expectations and constraints. Otherwise, no matter how much we do or say, it is all a form of self-reinforcement.
Hoping that time will temper a full purity to grow with.
In a person's life, most people are those we pass by without connection; even in conversation, it is merely talking to oneself. Real and deep relationships are hard to build and are very few.
In the end, a person can only be defeated by themselves.
Loneliness is when you need others, but cannot find them anywhere.
There is no recovery and no attempt to fill the void.
When he exists in silence, he has already lost any so-called results. — Anne Babei, "Awakening Diary"
请靠近我，或是阔别我。—— 安妮宝贝
我和她，都是具备离开情结的人。随时接受离开，随时准备离开。 ——安妮宝贝 《彼岸花》
我们要真正地经历和实践一些事，记录和分享它们，但并不以此证明自己的力量。真正地去维系和支持与一些人的关系，但并不以此寄予期望和束缚。否则做得再多，说得再多，都是一种自我强化。
盼望时间淬炼出一种充分的纯度，与之共进。
人的生活中，大部分都是擦肩而过没有维系的人，即便倾谈也不过是自说自话。真实而深入的关系很难建立，并且为数极少。
人其实最终只能被自我打败。
孤独是，你需要别人的时候，你遍寻不着。
没有任何复原和试图填补。
当他寂静存在的时候，就已经失去所谓的结果。 ——安妮宝贝 《清醒纪》
"In life, there are always involuntary separations that happen unnoticed"
"I do not wish to stand at a waving platform"
"Eventually, we lose each other, walking down different paths"
"When people leave, the tea grows cold—that is the law of nature."
"We became separated in love, no matter how we twist and turn."