Boredom is the greatest pain in life, for it speaks to the emptiness of our existence.
Life is like a tug-of-war; from the moment we are born, it is predetermined that if you do not win, you lose.
Life often presents challenges. You may choose to retreat or avoid them, but in doing so, you will never experience the joy of confronting and overcoming obstacles.
The interactions among gentlemen are free from utilitarian motives. They do not leverage their positions or authority to seek benefits for their relatives. Although their relationships appear as plain as water, their hearts are close. In contrast, the dealings among petty people are always driven by desires and ambitions. To achieve personal gain, they offer favors that are as sticky as honey; consequently, both sides often sever ties due to the excessive sweetness.
It is often said that "empty fame is a burden." While it may provide momentary psychological satisfaction, it is inherently valueless and meaningless. The pursuit of such fame is a major cause of various conflicts and contradictions in the world, and a root source of much sorrow and anxiety in life. To bear such worthless empty fame, people often schemed secretly behind the scenes and fought openly to the point of bloodshed, turning friends into enemies and brothers into rivals. What benefit is there in the burden of empty fame?