使用 it is a matter of 句型，后接动名词 starting over，表达简洁明了，逻辑清晰。
Do not complain about your dissatisfaction, do not complain that your man is poor or your woman is ugly, do not complain about not having a good father, do not complain about your bad job or low salary, and do not complain that your unique skills are unappreciated. Reality is full of disappointments. Even if life hands you trash, you can still trample it under your feet and climb to the peak of the world. This world only cares whether you have reached a certain height; it does not matter if you got there by standing on the shoulders of giants or by stepping on trash. In fact, those who climb by trampling on trash are more worthy of respect. In life, there is no such thing as failure! Observe the donkey's boldness; It is simply a matter of starting over. Life is just like that; is there really anything worth being sad about? Just treat it as trash under your feet and let it become the stepping stone for your success!
You, I am talking to you, who are still looking around. After all, you are a human being; you surely cannot be worse than a donkey, can you?!
不要抱怨你的不如意，不要抱怨你的男人穷，你的女人丑，不要抱怨你没有一个好爸爸，不要抱怨你的工作差，工资少，不要抱怨你空怀一身绝技没人赏识你。现实有太多的不如意，就算生活给你的是垃圾，你同样能把垃圾踩在脚底下，登上世界之巅。这个世界只在乎你是否到达了一定的高度，而不在乎你是踩在巨人的肩膀上去的，还是踩在垃圾上去的。而事实上，踩在垃圾上去的人更值得尊重。人生，没有失败！看驴生豪迈，不过从头再来。人生不过如此，又有什么值得你去伤悲的事，你就当它是踩在脚下的垃圾好了，让它成为你人生成功的垫脚石！
你，说的就是你，还东张西望，你毕竟是一个人，总不能不如一头驴吧？！