Never deliberately pleasing everyone; only then will you truly be charming.
If you do not lower your head, you will never see the gray stain on your chest.
If we take care of the present, we take care of the future. What we are attached to will deceive us. Whom we are attached to will hurt us. Therefore, we must learn to let go, view everything more lightly, hold no grudges, make no calculations, and regard right and wrong as insignificant.
The instant we first met, I strongly sensed an inexplicably gentle aura emanating from you.
Asked the Chan Master: "Master, how can one control emotions and not get angry when facing trouble?" The Chan Master replied: "Believe deeply in cause and effect, and one will not be confused. All grievances and grudges are caused by karma. Without confusion, there is no anger. Getting angry is like drinking poison yourself while expecting others to suffer." — Leave some space in your heart; do not let resentment fill it to the brim. Getting angry is punishing yourself for others' mistakes, while tolerance is inspiring yourself with others' achievements.