Treat everyone who enters your life with your heart. Do not look down on anyone; treat others with sincerity and regard each person as a long-time friend. Only by offering genuine hearts can we receive the same in return.
If a person only sees the flaws and shortcomings of others, they will gradually develop a blind sense of superiority, which is truly dangerous. Conversely, constantly comparing one's own inadequacies with the strengths of others is also inadvisable. Strengths and weaknesses are inherently incomparable. The wise approach is to absorb the excellent qualities from others, correct one's own shortcomings, and strive for a little progress each day. Because, ultimately, victory is not gained through the mistakes of others, but through our own efforts.
“As parents age, they become the 'children' who need care.” — Yang Lan, I Love You, Thank You
Simply put, about 10% of life is beyond our control, while the remaining 90% is within our grasp.
I may not necessarily advocate for resistance, but submission is certainly not an art.
I admire those who persist. I fear that years from now, having achieved nothing, I will still be lamenting. I truly should grow up and continue pursuing my dreams.
Being impatient with family, enthusiastic towards friends, and cautious with ourselves—this is likely what we are like now.