With the passage of time, you will gradually realize that some things may not be your will, yet they must be done. This process is, in itself, a form of self-discipline and training.
Life is experience, and experience is life. The purpose of life is not to correct others' mistakes or prove one's own rightness, but to live. Given this, one should not rot like grass or live in a state of drunken oblivion.
The mind values stillness, desire values scarcity, thought values agility, learning values diligence, friendship values sincerity, emotion values intimacy, poverty values ambition, wealth values benevolence, speech values brevity, joy values moderation, anger values patience, and the body values health!
Everyone has a small world within their heart. In my world, you occupy all the space; I know you are in my world, yet I feel you are pushing me out to make room for someone else. Whether it is giving up or the struggle of winning and losing, it no longer matters, for we are all mortals living in the mundane world, powerless to change certain fates. In each person's life, there will be moments that fulfill one's wishes. Therefore, cherish every bond and every encounter. Since we have met, we should cherish each other; since we share a bond, we should care. Treat every sentiment with a kind heart, treat every friend with a tolerant heart, treat the world with an understanding heart, and treat family with a loving heart.
A life without a plan is a jigsaw puzzle, while a life with a plan is a blueprint; a life without goals is a wandering, while a life with goals is a voyage. A bee works hard all day and is loved by all; a mosquito buzzes around all day and is hated by all. How busy you are is less important than what you are busy with. One wise decision outweighs a thousand futile efforts. Your life today is determined by the choices you made three or five years ago, while your life three or five years from now will be determined by the choices you make today.
The great wisdom of life can be summarized in six words: pick it up, let it go. Pick it up when the time is right; let it go when the situation demands. Many clever people in this world end up becoming mediocre because they overthink when they should have acted, thus missing opportunities, or cling too long when they should have let go, becoming trapped. When it is time to let go, do not force yourself to hold on; when it is time to pick up, do not easily give up. The former determines how easily you can live, while the latter determines how far you can go.
