I am somewhat puzzled. While skipping a few months of social insurance contributions might offer short-term relief, isn't long-term development far more important? Moreover, even though startups are small in scale and staff size, their basic benefits are often quite comprehensive.
The contrasting attitudes of these two girls toward work provided me with a profound lesson.
The latter lives in the moment. For her, work is merely a tool for earning money, and the more convenient, the better. She is simply "doing tasks." In contrast, the former can step back and view her entire life with clarity. She makes selective commitments and works with strategy, building momentum for her future. She is a person with systematic thinking and a broad perspective.
As Liang Dong and Wu Bofan put it, The most formidable individuals are those who can skillfully ride the momentum. After the Battle of Red Cliffs, why did Zhuge Liang send Guan Yu to let Cao Cao escape? Zhuge Liang was leveraging Guan Yu's influence to achieve multiple goals at once. If Cao Cao had been killed, Liu Bei might have been eliminated by Sun Quan, so Cao Cao had to survive to balance Sun Quan's power. Guan Yu had never fully respected Zhuge Liang. Knowing that Guan Yu valued loyalty and righteousness, Zhuge Liang predicted he would let Cao Cao go and thus made him sign a military order. This not only humbled Guan Yu's arrogance but also aligned with the situation. Zhuge Liang also knew Liu Bei would intervene, allowing Guan Yu to redeem his fault through service, thereby increasing his loyalty to the Shu Han state.
Becoming someone like Zhuge Liang might require natural talent in addition to effort. However, cultivating a long-term perspective like my roommate is something any of us can achieve through steady, grounded effort.