由两个简单句组成，第二句中的 either 用于否定句末尾，表示“也不”，语气直接且具有说服力。
Pursue ideals rather than fantasies, and channel passion rather than affectation. Find happiness in contentment in all things.
In my presence, you are a real existence; in the presence of others, you become a false performance. This is because some people trust while others doubt. What is trusted is the person; what is doubted is the heart.
Life is not Lin Daiyu; it will not become enchanting merely because of sorrow.
Water that is too clear holds no fish; people who are too scrutinizing have no companions. Therefore, being 'deliberately muddled' or not being too sharp is the highest realm.
Do not take yourself too seriously. No one else views you that way either.
要理想不要幻想，要激情不要矫情。凡事知足常乐。
在我面前你是真实的存在，在别人面前你就是虚假的表演。原因无外乎有人信任有人怀疑。信任的是人，怀疑的是心。
生活不是林黛玉，不会因为忧伤而风情万种。
水至清则无鱼，人至察则无徒，所以难得糊涂是最高境界。
不要那么认真地看待自己。没有人会这样看待你的。
"Approach gain and loss with equanimity."
"and pursue a simple happy life with an ordinary heart."
"In life the key to experiencing Zen is to maintain a calm and ordinary mind"
"A heart that withstands ordinary days can see gains and losses clearly."
"Treat an ordinary life with an ordinary heart, and your life will become extraordinary."