If you do not conquer difficulties, they will conquer you.
Most things in life go against our wishes, so do not constantly struggle with yourself. For your own issues, correction is the remedy; for others' faults, forgiveness is the solution. Obsession is a quagmire; the more you resist, the deeper you sink. Therefore, keep an open mind. When facing unpleasant situations, try shifting your perspective and attitude to gain clarity.
Emotions indeed influence behavior, and many people make mistakes or even cause tragedies because they cannot control their emotions. Can we control our emotions? The answer is yes. When faced with issues, simply calm down and tell yourself to wait a moment; this allows us to master our emotions.
Humility requires a foundation of capability; without competence, one lacks the confidence to be humble. Arrogance often stems from a narrow perspective, like a frog at the bottom of a well, unaware that there are people beyond people and skies beyond skies.
There are some people whom you cannot exactly pinpoint as excellent, yet who are irreplaceable. This is because they possess great virtue, their presence naturally radiates, and they attract people effortlessly.
The warmth and coldness of human relations are best met with patience, which serves as the arena for self-cultivation.
The minor misfortunes of life can actually help us endure major catastrophes.