Perhaps only through hardships can one achieve success, and only through experience does one truly understand: God created humanity perhaps to let us savor the truth of life. Only those who know how to seize "today" can lay the foundation of success in the present and nurture hope for tomorrow.
Why are you increasingly taken for granted? It is often because you are too agreeable. You say yes to every request and accept every offering, which diminishes your value. While being approachable is important, one's worth is often derived from the ability to say "no." Knowing how to refuse makes you more precious.
Life is like a tree; it needs self-watering to grow strong. As the saying goes, "Rely on heaven, rely on earth, but rely on yourself most." Yes, one must rely on oneself. This does not mean refusing help from others or refusing to help others; it simply means that friends cannot stay by your side forever, and parents cannot be your harbor forever.
As the ancients said: No one is perfect. In relationships, focus on a person's strengths to maintain a long-term connection; if you fixate on their flaws, even a thoroughbred will seem like a lame donkey.
A person with a wicked heart finds no moment of true happiness.
Work liberates one from loneliness, greed, and poverty.
Desire is a tumor growing in the human soul, imprisoning and oppressing the spirit, closing the door to joy and happiness. Human needs are actually finite, but desires expand infinitely. One should learn to satisfy basic needs, restrain insatiable desires, and follow the natural heart to harvest a happy life.
Those who do evil suffer the most, like a bee stinging a person; the bee is harmed even more, for it loses its sting and strength in the process.
Like maple leaves turning red in the frost, like pine trees staying green in the north wind, like winter plum blossoms standing proud in the snow—that is the strength of a true person of life.
If a diamond is not perfectly polished, its value is no different from a lump of coal. No matter how humble the start, as long as one gives their all, results will eventually be seen.