Remember every person who has been kind to you, for they did not have to be. In relationships, dignity is the bottom line; any bond that requires you to compromise your self-worth or endure suffering is not worth keeping. True love may occasionally make you feel overwhelmed, jealous, or tearful, but its essence is warmth and a sense of security. If you do not feel that warmth, it means you have either loved the wrong person or used the wrong approach. Rather than enduring pain, it is better to embrace the freedom of being single.
Life often teases us: the more you wait for something, the further it stays; the more you cling to someone, the deeper the hurt they may cause. Therefore, do not be overly expectant in your actions, nor excessively attached to people. Learn to let go of unrealistic expectations and obsessive pursuits that yield no results. Everything in this world is transient; only the happiness and joy of the present moment are truly permanent.
If you enter a profession solely for survival, you must carefully consider whether it is truly suitable for you. Assess whether you have the determination to persist and the confidence to cultivate an interest in the field. If you have no interest in the industry and are unwilling to invest time and effort in developing one, you are destined for poor outcomes.
Everyone has weaknesses. Those who like to mock or attack their superiors' flaws often lack maturity and are unlikely to achieve a bright career future.