通过 but 连接两个动宾结构，形成强烈的转折对比，强调从主观臆断到客观认知的转变过程。
Life is like a rushing river, and we are all just small boats in its current. We either drift along with the flow or rise to create waves that belong to us alone.
When one person is bullied, another steps in to protect them; when one faces setbacks, another dedicates their full strength to help; when one is ill and bedridden, another cares for them with utmost devotion. It is precisely in times of hardship that the bond of brotherhood is most revealed.
Therefore, in life, we should practice the "Four Don'ts." Don't be subjective; Do not rely solely on imagination but break free from delusions to see the true nature of things. Don't be certain; understand that the world is impermanent and nothing is guaranteed to happen exactly as foreseen. Therefore, relax, do your best, and have no regrets. Don't be rigid; leave room for maneuver in all matters to avoid the reversal caused by extremes. Don't be self-centered; set aside the ego, judge matters by their merits, and people by their actions.
First, one must learn to treat oneself well; only then can one truly treat others well.
By not overlooking every brick and tile, we can build grand skyscrapers; by not indulging in every word and deed, we can cultivate noble character.
人生仿佛奔泻的长河，我们都是长河中的一叶扁舟。要么随波逐流，顺应命运；要么逆流而上，激起属于自己的一朵浪花。
当一人受到欺负，另一人便挺身而出；当一人遭遇挫折，另一人便倾注全力相助；当一人生病在床，另一人便呵护备至。正是在这艰难困苦之时，兄弟间的情义才最为彰显。
因此，在生活中我们要做到“四毋”。毋意，即凡事不能仅凭主观想象，需破除执念，看清事物的本来面目；毋必，即深知世事无常，没有什么是一定发生的，事物不会完全按照你的预见毫无差异地发展，因此要放松心态，尽心即可，无愧即可；毋固，即凡事应留有余地，以便回旋，避免物极必反；毋我，即抛弃以“我”为中心的观念，就事论事，就人论人。
人首先要学会善待自己，只有如此，才能更好地善待他人。
不轻视每一砖一瓦，才能建成高楼大厦；不放纵每一言一行，才能铸就高尚品德。