Human desires are insatiable, leading to endless conflicts and persecutions in the world. One should cherish what they currently possess rather than indulging in greed or harboring excessive, unrealistic fantasies. Otherwise, not only will you fail to obtain what you desperately seek, but you will also lose everything you originally could have had.
Liking someone is like swinging on a swing; one can enjoy the pleasure alone. Love, however, is like a seesaw, requiring two people to share the sweetness and joy together. Liking a person does not necessarily mean loving them, but the prerequisite for loving someone is indeed liking them first.
Life is a testing ground everywhere, but there is no single standard for a perfect score. We can evaluate ourselves from various perspectives. As long as we realize our life's value, living with composure and a clear conscience is sufficient. Once we can face the temptations of fame and profit with a normal state of mind, success will inevitably follow.
Drifting separately, under separate skies, each finding their own peace. During busy times, we may occasionally forget to stay in touch or send a postcard from afar; when we feel like laughing, we might shout with joy like magpies while holding up our skirts. Perhaps in our hearts, they will always be that small harbor, regardless of how distant the shore may be.
Try to calm yourself down. If your mind cannot find peace, try changing your environment first, then close your eyes, take deep breaths, and slowly relax. Trying this a few times will help.