There are only three ways to solve all problems: accept, change, or leave.
Make a promise, never break it.
Do not be too extreme in your actions, as leaving no room for retreat makes it difficult to navigate forward or back. Life is like a play; joy and sorrow, reunion and separation are the norm, while everything going as planned is the exception. After all, we are not the masters of our fate. In this play of life, fate is the only director.
Suffering is fortune, forbearance is virtue, tolerance is wisdom, diligence is insight, hardship is wealth, after bitterness comes sweetness, helping the poor is compassion. Releasing life is love, showing respect is humility, a clear mind is righteousness, holding power is responsibility, being without office is salary, self-forgetfulness is transcendence, generosity is divinity. Selflessness is kingship, greed is evil, helping others is joy, deceiving others is debt, fairness is clarity, insatiable desire is disaster, integrity is goodness.
Not everyone can remain silent after pain, distilling that piercing sorrow into a fragrance that adorns life. Not everyone can mask their ache with a smile after falling, using tears to heal in the empty space of loneliness, only to stand stubbornly again when the sun rises. I smile for myself. If you do not warm yourself, who will bring you sunlight? What is the use of crying? Your wailing has long been drowned out by the noise of the world.