In terms of mindset, men often tend to focus on the long term, while women pay more attention to the present; men pursue happiness, while women seek peace of mind; men prefer abstract thinking, while women lean towards concrete imagery; men crave novelty, while women value longevity; men care about face, while women focus on substance; men tend to be proactive, while women are often reactive; men act as hunters, while women are acquirers; men make decisive decisions, while women are prudent in their actions; in role metaphors, men often act like executives executing orders, while women act like board members overseeing the big picture.
The mind is like a mirror. Although external scenery constantly changes, the surface of the mirror remains still. This is an equanimous state of mind, allowing one to observe changing circumstances without letting the inner peace be disturbed.
Life is never perfect, so simplicity is the best approach. There is a state of mind that remains gentle and warm even after experiencing the ups and downs of life. There is a smile that remains radiant even after weathering storms and hardships.
Do not forget what you once had. Cherish what you cannot attain. Do not give up on what belongs to you. And leave what has already been lost as a beautiful memory.
Do not monopolize honor, for the glory enjoyed alone today may turn into bitterness suffered alone tomorrow.