As time passes, we gradually realize that treating someone with sincerity does not always yield a return. Those we overlook may, in fact, be the ones who value us the most. We learn that many beautiful things in life are fleeting and unattainable, and some experiences can only be had once. Life may leave us with scars, but some wounds need time to heal, while others, which cannot be touched, can only be soothed by music and released through words.
If you do not know what your partner is doing outside, it might be best not to seek to know. Otherwise, you will only suffer more. Some people insist on investigating their partner's fidelity, with only two possible outcomes. First, if it is true, are you willing to divorce? Can you support yourself? Can you guarantee that the next person will be better? Second, if there is no evidence, you might feel relieved, but your partner's trust in you will likely be broken.
You are the most important passerby in my life. You remain a passerby because you never stayed for me. You once sowed seeds of joy in my life, yet they never bloomed because you never watered or fertilized them. You once left a scar on my life, and it remains because you never showed gentle compassion. You once gave me a ray of light but instantly brought total darkness, leaving me in shadow because you never thought to illuminate my path.