We often unconsciously choose partners we shouldn't love, marriages we shouldn't enter, positions unsuited to our abilities, or dreams that remain out of reach, thereby plunging into various life dilemmas. Remarkably, life's hardships are like the sun rising in the east and setting in the west; they do not change based on our choices. Different choices merely lead to dilemmas of varying intensity. All we can do is accept reality.
Everything may be unfavorable, but one's mood must remain positive. Everything may be lacking, but self-confidence must not be absent. Everything may be discarded, but happiness must not be abandoned.
When desires are unmet, there is suffering; once they are fulfilled, there is boredom. Life swings between suffering and boredom.
Do not merely gaze at the distant future. Instead, focus on tasks at hand and spend a joyful, fulfilling today, for only the present is real.
Let the heart be like a mirror. Although external scenery changes constantly, the mirror itself does not turn. This is a state of equanimity, where The mind remains steady despite changing circumstances.