Light winds and clear skies make for pleasant weather; a serene and elegant demeanor reflects a fine character. 'Dai' (lightness/indifference) signifies a refined exterior with an intelligent interior. It requires no heavy embellishment to stand on one's own authentic nature and deal with the world with tolerance. Excessive joy or grief drains internal energy and invites external resentment, ultimately harming harmony over time. What can be overlooked should be ignored, and what cannot be fully ignored should be minimized. Amidst the noise of the world, maintain composure. In this single journey of life, mental well-being is the most important asset. Living with a serene mindset allows troubles to dissipate like smoke. Understanding how to enjoy the process of life adds genuine pleasure to existence. The principle of 'shede' (letting go to gain) suggests: by offering a smile, we gain friendship; by being tolerant, we gain magnanimity; by being honest, we gain true friends; by letting go of face, we gain substance; by shedding false fame, we gain freedom; by giving generously, we gain a good reputation; by releasing attachment, we gain peace of mind.
There is no job in this world that is not hard. Life is, in essence, a process of self-cultivation. Why torment yourself with a restless heart and wound the tenderness of time? In daily life, try to adopt the habit of thinking, "Having it is wonderful; not having it is fine," which allows one to find joy even in hardship. To live is a form of practice.