Only by serving the public good and benefiting others can a person stand tall and uphold their integrity.
In judging right from wrong, the extent of one's knowledge is less important than the choice of stance. Stances are divided into public and private, and between self and others. When evaluating issues of public interest, one should express opinions from their own perspective, as the aggregate of individual interests constitutes the public interest. Conversely, when handling personal matters, one must adopt a public perspective to ensure no conflict with the common good. When navigating the interplay of interests between oneself and others, one should strive to empathize with the other party, seeking self-benefit only after ensuring the benefit of others.
I am particularly fond of the phrase 'washing away lead and rouge' (stripping away superficiality), often comparing it to a woman. Upon close reflection, there is a unique charm to be found. It does not mean truly washing away the dust of the mundane world or fully perceiving the sorrow of life, achieving a state of otherworldliness like a phoenix rising from the ashes. Rather, 'washing away lead and rouge' signifies finally seeing through certain matters, opening one's mind, letting go, and finding peace. Past events become like drifting smoke, and if we meet again in the future, we can dissolve old grievances with a single smile.
The brave have no fear, the wise have no doubt, and the benevolent have no worry. True courage is not the absence of fear, but the transcendence of it; in their hearts, the pursuit of aspirations far outweighs the fear of difficulties. The wise see through the complexities of human affairs, understand the changes of the universe, and remain indifferent to the allure of fame and profit; thus, they know when to advance and when to retreat, understanding the bigger picture. The benevolent hold the world in their hearts and diminish their ego, thereby embracing universal love and tolerance. Because they are tolerant, they do not contend; because they do not contend, they are free from worry.