Do not waste your life on places or things that will inevitably lead to regret. The moment you let go, the moment your troubles disappear. Arrogant people can still be saved, but those with extreme low self-esteem are beyond redemption.
Lu Tao said at the party where everyone celebrated his birthday:
Don't forget the promises you made to yourself, and don't forget the places you long to visit. If you strive, there is no tomorrow you cannot reach.
More often than not, it is ourselves who defeat us, rather than others.
As the saying goes, failure is the mother of success. However, I believe that failure is also a kind of liberation and elegance, and a form of "gain". In life, there is both success and failure. Success is like beautiful flowers, but failure can also be brilliant in its own way.
I only know that I feel the most fulfilled when I am being deceived by you to the point of going in circles. — Myle