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成熟，便是以微笑面对生活中的每一件小事。人生中有三样东西绝不该挥霍：身体、金钱和爱；若试图挥霍，终将得不偿失。人生中有三样东西无法挽留：生命、时间和爱；若试图挽留，它们只会渐行渐远。人生中有三样东西不该反复回忆：灾难、死亡和爱；若执意回忆，只会苦不堪言。
Obsessing over them will only bring immense suffering.
执着于它们只会带来巨大的痛苦。
动名词 Obsessing over them 作主语，谓语 will bring 后接形容词 immense 修饰名词 suffering，用词精准，情感色彩强烈。
Maturity is facing every trivial matter in life with a smile. There are three things in life that should never be squandered: health, money, and love; attempting to waste them will only lead to regret. There are three things that cannot be retained: life, time, and love; trying to hold onto them will only make them drift further away. There are three things that should not be dwelled upon: disasters, death, and love; Obsessing over them will only bring immense suffering.
成熟，便是以微笑面对生活中的每一件小事。人生中有三样东西绝不该挥霍：身体、金钱和爱；若试图挥霍，终将得不偿失。人生中有三样东西无法挽留：生命、时间和爱；若试图挽留，它们只会渐行渐远。人生中有三样东西不该反复回忆：灾难、死亡和爱；若执意回忆，只会苦不堪言。
"Gradually, you will realize you encounter many disagreeable people or things"
"Dwelling on petty grievances only invites trouble."
"There is no need to obsess over those who treat you poorly."
"Eventually, he had to discard some stones from his basket to lighten the load."
"All beings suffer, and letting go brings peace."