In life, we should possess a mind as vast as the ocean, manage our daily routines with scientific methods, nourish our bodies with mindful eating, cleanse our lungs with fresh air, bask in the warm sunlight, and sleep peacefully like a lazy cat. Engage in activities that bring you joy and keep company with those who make you laugh. Let laughter be as frequent as breathing, and let love be as enduring as life itself.
Life does not require excessive calculation; the key lies in seeing things clearly and letting go. Whether yesterday, today, or tomorrow, as long as your mind is open and clear, it is a beautiful day. Whether it is worry or irritation, gain or loss, remember that your life is just right at this moment.
Regarding the truth of words, there often exists a complex wisdom for survival. While one should not lie, one is not always obligated to speak the whole truth, nor must all truths be disclosed at once; this is often the code of conduct for navigating complex environments. Speech is like a swing, moving with the force applied; and what remains unsaid is often more significant than what is spoken.
The root of suffering often lies in the widening gap of differences. Two people who seem compatible at a certain stage may, over time, realize that they are not moving in the same direction. Compatibility, at times, is merely an accidental overlap of two broad paths at a specific moment.