Life is essentially an adjustment of one's own mindset. Life is filled with passersby, and no matter how reluctant you are to part, they will eventually leave. Therefore, do not worry excessively about those around you, nor should you deliberately concern yourself with others' affairs. There will always be people who make you sad or angry, not because they are inherently bad, but because you care deeply about them.
In life, it is better to take things lightly than to see through them all. Do not deliberately imitate others. As a brief traveler in this world, every stage of life gives us a different understanding of existence. Perhaps our path is not perfect, but we are striving to bloom; perhaps we may get lost, but there is no need to complain, for roads cannot be retraced, and people cannot be relived.
In handling matters, one should practice "three tolerances": tolerate what you can, tolerate what you cannot, and tolerate what you can but no longer need to. If one can endure material desires, one is an average person; if one can endure human desires, one is a superior person; If one can endure one's own desires, one is a noble person.
If being loved brings pain, it is better to be alone with peace and leisure. However, in many deep, bone-marrow-deep romances, the pain is often what is remembered, while the laughter fades into obscurity.