Do not spend excessive time worrying about the hurts you have received, nor obsess over questions like "Why is this person treating me this way." Some people deliberately make you feel embarrassed because they perceive you as a threat or wish to punish you for past offenses, while others are simply accustomed to making such jokes without considering the potential harm. For the latter, there is no need to dwell on whether their actions were intentional.
Everything can be imperfect, except your mood; everything can be lacking, except your self-confidence; everything can be discarded, except your happiness.
The past can be a failure, but the future must not be; actions can fail, but character must not. Failing in actions is a temporary setback, whereas failing in character is a lifelong regret.
Those who know only "hardness" are prone to breaking, while those who know only "softness" are ultimately cowards. Balance between strength and flexibility is essential.
In fact, we often realize what we once had only when we lose it. But have you noticed that when certain good things come, we have already missed them?
It is precisely because we have experienced too few setbacks that we tend to overvalue trivial matters.
Be sincere with sincere people, but play along with hypocrites.
When a person is poor, they may not ask for your help; when a person is lazy, they may not use your services. Do not judge people by appearances, do not make actions superficial, do not waste your life, and do not wait merely to delay others.
Do not regret. Since you have acted, the outcome is only one of two possibilities: wrong or right; there is no in-between. If you were wrong, learn to improve; if you were right, maintain that course and continue to excel.
When the road is blocked, choose to turn; when your heart is troubled, choose to let go; when feelings fade, choose to be indifferent. Some things pass if you endure; some people are forgotten if you let go; some sorrows dissolve if you smile. A heart becomes stronger through pain. On the bumpy road of life, walk with a calm and accepting heart.
