71. Cherish your true love. Remember the wife waiting at home, abandon your fleeting infatuations, and forget the lover waiting outside. A wife is a lamp illuminating the way home in the darkness, while a lover is the darkness of the night itself. When you return at night, look at the lamp your wife has lit for you, and be grateful for the choice you made. 72. Many things in life are already lost; it is better to let them go. 73. '外御其侮，莫如弟兄。' 74. Someone asked Socrates: 'How high is the distance between heaven and earth?' Socrates replied: 'Three feet!' The person was skeptical: 'Each of us is five feet tall; if the distance is only three feet, wouldn't that pierce the heavens?' Socrates smiled and said: 'Therefore, anyone taller than three feet, if they wish to stand tall between heaven and earth, must learn how to bow.' Bowing is a skill; sometimes, a slight bow might make our life's journey even more wonderful. 75. To see through something is to let it go. Only by letting go of greed can one find the peace of mind to taste happiness. 76. Do people not often bicker over trivial matters, only to reunite happily and laugh together a few days later? Every reconciliation after a moment of doubt is seen by lovers as the most blissful and emotional experience—the most unforgettable and profound part of their love. 77. I am a mere passerby in your life, but you are the permanent frame of mine. 78. If you were to look back before you left, you would see the hollow despair on my face. 79. Finding someone to cry with is far more healing than weeping alone. 80. The story shows that 'even begging requires wit and skill.' As the Chinese proverb says, '盗亦有道.' In our daily work and studies, nothing can be accomplished well without using our brains and following certain rules. 81. Why is it not us who seize the championship? Why is it not right now? 82. Do not make promises lightly regarding things you are unsure you can achieve. Be trustworthy and follow through. If you fail to deliver on a promise, you will find yourself in an awkward position where helping is worse than not helping at all. 83. Sometimes, close friends become strangers; sometimes, people leave without even saying goodbye; sometimes, things become clear without a word. Suddenly, you feel like crying, realizing you have grown up. Do not hesitate when things begin, and do not hesitate when they are in progress; only then can anything become possible. 84. Everything you encounter is born because of you, and everyone you meet is set for you. Life is composed of both pain and joy. There are two difficult tasks in this world: changing others and changing oneself. Demanding change from others is painful, but changing oneself can be joyful. To change others, first change yourself! 85. I do not wish to stand at a departing station and watch our tear-streaked faces. As we step into that window and calmly purchase the return journey, every second the world gives us becomes precious. I miss your sparkling eyes, your graceful silhouette, and above all, your tenderness... 86. Once we have exhausted our tears, we will smile heartlessly... When what we possess becomes what we have lost, let us let go bravely. 87. In all matters, show a bit of care, a smile, a bit of patience, and a bit of humility. You lose nothing, yet it often turns misfortune into blessing and danger into safety. 88. Everything we do is in pursuit of happiness, yet happiness often arrives quietly when we stop actively chasing it. 89. The worst feeling is not knowing whether to wait or to give up. 90. There are no 'whys'—I just know I like you without reason. 91. Love and not loving, liking and not liking—a single character's difference, a single thought's distance. 92. Is there anyone else like me who loves the crisp sound of a phone sliding across a surface? 93. You have your background, and I have my story... 94. In this world, we are both participants and observers. The more deeply one participates, the shallower one's observation becomes, leading to anxiety and pain. Conversely, if one participates less and observes more, one will find more ease and joy. 95. Animals only have the ability to barely survive, but humans possess surplus energy. If this surplus energy is not applied to creative fields, it becomes a burden, often used to create unnecessary pain and misfortune for oneself and others.
