1. The greatest happiness is not when others bring joy to you, but when you bring joy to others.
2. The greatest pain is not failing to win the heart of a loved one, but seeing that person fail to find happiness throughout their life.
3. When you meet a benefactor in life, remember to be grateful, for they are the turning point of your destiny.
4. When you meet someone you once hated, greet them with a smile, for they have made you stronger.
5. The greatest foolishness is not failing to see a trap before you, but falling into the same one a second time.
6. The greatest impurity is not the betrayal of one's body, but the betrayal of one's soul.
7. The most despicable act is not lighting the fuse, but thirsting to see the aftermath of the explosion.
8. When you find a trustworthy friend, cherish them, for finding a soulmate in a lifetime is truly rare.
9. To love someone is to understand and to enlighten; to apologize and to express gratitude; to admit mistakes and to correct them; to be considerate and to be empathetic; it is to accept, not to endure; to be tolerant, not to indulge; to support, not to dominate; to comfort, not to interrogate; to confide, not to accuse; to be unforgettable, not to be forgotten; to communicate, not to dictate; to pray silently for them, rather than making endless demands; to be romantic without being wasteful; to hold hands anytime, but not break up lightly; if all these are done, even if love ends, there will only be nostalgia, not resentment.
10. The most hateful act is not pulling up a tree, but leaving the hole beneath it unfilled.
11. The highest nobility is not being remembered by others for your kindness, but forgetting the kindness you have given to others.
12. The deepest loneliness is not waiting for someone who hasn't arrived, but realizing that the person has already left your heart.
13. The greatest happiness is not finally receiving a bouquet of flowers, but being forever surrounded by flowers.
