该句使用被动结构表达责任与义务关系。
63. Family secrets should not be shared externally, and rumors should not be easily believed.
64. Not everyone who reaches a result is successful, nor is everyone without a result a failure. My lifelong realization is that success lies in the process. Looking back in the future, the joy is not in the final moment of crossing the finish line; the result is merely a bonus—good or bad, it doesn't matter.
65. Do not assume that others are being unkind if they do not help you. No one is obligated to be kind to you. If you fall into a well, someone not throwing stones is being kind; if your wall is about to collapse, someone not pushing it is being kind. Since others are not causing you trouble, they are already being kind enough—why expect them to help you?
66. Some say that the longer one waits in anticipation, the more happiness one receives. Indeed, in endless darkness, only anticipation can lead you out.
67. Unrequited love does not necessarily require a confession; otherwise, how could it be called unrequited love?
68. Young women, when navigating the world alone, what you rely on most is your strength and resilience.
69. When peering out through the window of questions, everything in the external world seems to become a question; we ourselves are precisely such a window.
63. 家丑不可外传，流言切莫轻信。
64. 并非所有获得结果的人都算成功，也并非没有结果的人就是失败。我一生的体会是：成功在于过程之中。将来回首往事，乐趣并不在于最后冲过终点的刹那，结果不过是购买过程中的一份赠品，好则赚到，坏也无妨。
65. 不要认为别人不帮你就是对你不好。没有人有义务对你温柔以待。若你坠入深井，他人不投石问路已是善意；若你围墙将倾，他人不推一把便是慈悲。既然别人没有给你添麻烦，已是极大的善意，又何必强求他人的帮助呢？
66. 有人说，期待的时间越长，收获的幸福就越多。的确，在无尽的黑暗中，唯有这份期待，能指引你走出阴霾。
67. 暗恋未必非要表白，否则，又怎能称之为暗恋呢？
68. 女孩子们，独自在外闯荡，拼的就是一份坚韧。
69. 透过问题的窗口向外眺望，外部世界的一切似乎都成了问题，而我们自身，正是这样一个窗口。