36. There is nothing heavier than empathy. Even our own suffering cannot compare to the weight of feeling another's pain. By standing in someone else's shoes, the pain intensifies through imagination, growing heavier with every echo and reflection.
37. Life is like a blank sheet of paper. Each of us comes into this world to sketch our own journey, and everyone possesses a unique destiny.
38. Seeking but not obtaining, wanting to let go but unable, and obtaining but not cherishing—these are life's greatest sorrows. People err mostly because they are too calculating when they should be sincere, and too emotional when they should be rational. Freedom is not doing whatever you want, but having the power to not do what you don't want to do. Happiness is a comparative state; it requires a foundation to be felt.
39. When you tell a secret to a good friend, never forget that your good friend also has their own good friends.
40. Because of a lack of effort, nothing goes smoothly.
41. Although we lack the ability to return to the past, we all have the opportunity to create the future.
42. Amidst the worldly vanities, you refuse to sleep, just as I refuse to wake.
43. Do not expose a woman's lies to her face. Even if you do, she will find a perfect explanation; even if you don't believe her, she will never admit to lying. If you meet a woman who lies, the best approach is to pretend to believe her, otherwise, you are only asking for trouble.
44. Even deities may inevitably face their own sufferings; their smiling faces might merely be a facade for the world.
45. Destiny assigns a path to everyone. This path may be wide at times and narrow at others. As long as you walk with a calm mind and full of hope, a path will surely open up for you.
46. The heart is the key to everything. A tranquil heart can shape an extraordinary person and add endless luster to an ordinary life.
47. The world is unpredictable and complex. Only by doing one's best and leaving the rest to fate can one maintain inner peace.
48. Life requires a smile that ignores the clamor, a calmness that washes away extremism, a solidity that needs no fanfare, and a depth that is not ostentatious.
49. Those who do not plan far ahead will face immediate troubles. When things are good, find a backup; when successful, find a way out; when losing, find a way forward!
50. Scenery is seen from afar, but life is lived up close. You cannot make everyone like you, so it is better to be yourself. Do not rely too heavily on others, for even your shadow leaves you in the dark. Life often plays jokes: the more you expect someone, the further they drift; the more you cling to someone, the deeper they wound you.
51. Whenever you feel the need for company, you realize some people cannot be sought, some should not be sought, and some simply cannot be found. Deleting social media is often just a way to find an outlet—to avoid talking to anyone and simply sit in silence.
52. Be at peace. There is no need to argue every point in life. Clear water has no fish; a person too pure has no friends. Arguing with family wins the argument but loses the kinship; arguing with a lover wins the logic but fades the love; arguing with a friend wins the point but breaks the bond. You win the logic, lose the emotion, and hurt yourself.
53. A simple heart sees through complexity; a simple life with clear goals allows one to go far. The more desires you have, the more pain you endure and the further happiness drifts. Only those who practice moderation can enjoy the true essence of life. Some people, though you may become indifferent as they stay longer, were once the ones holding up your sky. As for those who leave, let them go; imperfection is a form of beauty.
54. Life is not a landscape painting; it won't always be sunny.
55. In front of me, you are real; in front of others, you are perhaps just performing. The reason lies in trust and doubt. We trust people, but we doubt their hearts.
