Present continuous passive structure expressing judgment.
A young couple had a new neighbor move in across from them. The next morning, while they were having breakfast, the wife noticed the new neighbor washing clothes outside.
The wife remarked to her husband, "Those clothes aren't being washed cleanly. Perhaps she doesn't know how to do laundry properly, or maybe she needs better detergent."
The husband looked at his wife and remained silent.
For every subsequent time the neighbor did laundry, the wife would offer similar criticisms.
About a month later, the wife was surprised to see a piece of clothing hanging on the neighbor's clothesline that looked remarkably clean. She cried out to her husband, "Look! She has learned how to wash clothes! I wonder who taught her?"
The husband replied, "I woke up early this morning and cleaned the window panes."
【Insight】: Before making judgments about others, first check if your own "window" is clean. What we perceive is often a reflection of the clarity of the window through which we view the world.
Before we pass judgment, we should examine whether we are being objective and if we can see the positive sides of others, rather than just looking for faults to condemn them. So, please make sure to clean your "window."
一对年轻夫妇搬进新家后，对面搬来了一户新邻居。第二天早晨，夫妇俩正在吃早餐，妻子注意到新搬来的邻居正在户外洗衣服。
妻子对丈夫感叹道：“那些衣服洗得并不干净，或许是那位邻居不太懂得清洗的方法，或者她需要用更好一点的洗衣粉。”
丈夫看着妻子，只是沉默不语。
此后，每当邻居洗衣服时，妻子都会对她的表现进行一番评论。
大约一个月后，妻子惊讶地发现，邻居晾在绳子上的衣服竟然变得非常干净。她兴奋地大喊：“快看！她学会怎么洗衣服了！真想知道是谁教会她的呢？”
丈夫却平静地回答道：“因为今天一大早，我把窗户玻璃擦干净了。”
【启示】：在我们对他人的行为作出判断之前，首先要检查自己的“窗户”是否干净。我们所感知到的世界，往往取决于观察者自身的视角与心境。
在对他人的过失进行评判之前，我们应当反思自己是否足够客观，是否能够看到对方积极的一面，而非仅仅盯着问题去审判他人。因此，请务必定期擦亮你的“窗户”。