该句使用to be结构构成被动不定式，表达抽象概念的否定定义。
Recently, a popular song titled “Can It Be Possible” has been widely shared by many people on social media. In the comment section of NetEase Cloud Music, one highly upvoted comment reads: “Don’t give everything to someone too early, because you are still young.” Indeed, many people give their all in relationships only to end up with nothing, eventually choosing to settle for an imperfect life.
There is also another viewpoint: “You can give everything to someone, because you are still young.” Even if it ends in disappointment, life still offers the chance to start over. Youth means having options and the courage to begin again.
In daily life, people often ask me why I have been single for so long and urge me to start dating or get married quickly, sometimes even comparing me to former partners who have already moved on. But no matter who asks, my answer remains the same: Love is not something to be settled for, and marriage is not something to be entered into casually.
Before meeting someone truly worth loving, I will not easily start a relationship or enter into marriage. I do not want to disappoint the person I may meet in the future, nor do I want to give up my ability to love sincerely.
I choose to live my life without settling, without compromising, and without giving up.
最近有一首很火的歌叫《可能否》，不少朋友都在朋友圈分享这首歌。在网易云音乐的评论区里，有一句热评：“不要太早为一个人倾尽全部，因为你太年轻了。”确实，很多人在感情中付出了全部，最后却落得一场空，最终选择将就着过完一生。
也有另一种声音认为：“你可以为一个人付出所有，因为你还年轻。”即便付出之后没有结果，人生依然可以重新开始。年轻意味着还有选择的机会，也还有重新出发的勇气。
生活中，经常有人问我，单身这么久为什么还不谈恋爱，甚至催促我尽快结婚成家，或者拿前任已经步入新阶段来比较。然而无论是谁提出这样的疑问，我的答案始终如一：爱情不是可以将就的事情，婚姻也不是可以随便凑合的选择。
在没有遇到真正值得相爱的人之前，我不会轻易开始一段感情，也不会随意走入婚姻。我不愿意让未来那个对的人失望，也不想轻易放弃自己认真去爱的能力。
我选择余生，不将就，不凑合，不放弃。