该句通过时间状语强调社会背景对爱情状态的影响。
“Sigh, let's just get by and muddle through this life.” Perhaps you've said this before? I often hear people say it. Many believe that settling once in a while doesn't matter and things will pass. But is a settled love truly what you want? Can a compromise in marriage bring happiness? I once saw a quote on Weibo that said it perfectly: “The worst thing in the world is not dying alone, but growing old with someone who makes you feel lonely.” In this fast-paced society, even love has become rushed, and it's hard to meet the right person at the start. It's like learning to cook for the first time; when buying seasonings at the supermarket, there are so many brands that we can't tell which tastes best, so we pick one randomly and only discover if we like it after trying. Life is long, people come and go, and we are bound to meet a few wrong ones before understanding what kind of person we truly seek. So, promise me, no matter what you've been through, remember that life is long and it's never too late to start. For the rest of your life, do not settle, do not compromise, do not give up. Life only happens once; it is not meant to be lived by settling or compromising.
“唉，就这样将就着过吧，凑合着过完这一辈子就行了。”或许你们曾经说过这句话吧？我经常听到有人这样说。很多人认为，将就一下无所谓，凑合着就过去了。但是，将就的爱情，真的是你想要的吗？凑合的婚姻会带来幸福吗？我曾在微博上看到一句话说得很好：“世界上最糟糕的事情，不是孤独终老，而是与那些让你感到孤独的人一起终老。”在这个快节奏的社会，连爱情也变得匆忙，很难一开始就遇到合适的人。这就像我们第一次学做饭，去超市买调味料，各种牌子琳琅满目，我们无法分辨哪种好吃，只能随便选一个，试过之后才知道是否喜欢。人生漫长，人来人往，总会遇到一些错误的人，最终才能明白自己真正想要什么样的人。所以，请答应我，不管经历了什么，你都要记住，人生很长，什么时候开始追求都不晚。余生，不将就，不凑合，不放弃，好吗？人生只有一次，不是用来将就、凑合地度过的。