Some feelings are only recognized as "longing" during sleepless nights; some gazes are only seen as "attachment" at the moment of parting; some moods are only understood as "loss" after a separation.
The brave are fearless, the wise are undoubting, and the benevolent are carefree. The brave are not without fear, but their pursuit of desire far outweighs their fear of hardship. The wise see through the intricacies of human affairs and the changes of the universe, looking past the temptations of fame and fortune, thus knowing when to advance or retreat. The benevolent hold the world in their hearts and diminish their ego; they are tolerant because of their universal love, and carefree because they do not compete.
Accidentally exposing someone's wounds can leave an indelible scar; such bluntness is not always a virtue. Navigating human relationships is a profound art. Being entirely transparent is not always beneficial; sometimes, speaking the naked truth can be harsh. One does not need to be as transparent as crystal; leaving a bit of mystery to be discovered is far better than offending others with bluntness.
Friendship is a double-edged sword; some bring warmth, while others bring heartache. Even if you have been hurt by friends, be grateful that in these years of youth, without wealth or power, connections are often pure. When feelings align, people stay close; when they fade, they drift apart. Since everyone lives for themselves, there is no need to hold onto those who leave. Cherish those around you who truly appreciate your goodness; mutual indispensability is the mark of true friendship.
Most of life is spent in dormancy, accumulating strength and waiting. This calm and tranquil state is not idleness, but a form of strategic humility—a way to create the best environment by remaining unobtrusive and non-threatening. In this state of serenity, one can quietly attain what they seek.
