是主动改变还是被动适应，完全由你自己选择。

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The eyes of the wise are on their heads, making them prone to arrogance; the eyes of the blind are at their feet, making them prone to stubbornness.

Being busy is a blessing, as it leaves us no time to dwell on pain; being on the move is a joy, as it allows us to experience life truly; being exhausted is a satisfaction, as it leaves no room for emptiness; and setbacks are experiences that help us understand life deeply.

It is better to hide wisdom than to display cleverness. Be a "muddled" yet wise person, knowing how to hide your light and practice great wisdom through humility; show weakness appropriately to conceal your strength, do not become conceited in success, and do not reveal your emotions too openly; learn to focus on the big picture by being "muddled" about small matters to seek a better future.

Nothing is insurmountable; it is only time that cannot be turned back.

Treat your friends' elders with the same respect as your own; treat their children with multifaceted and multi-angle praise, and avoid criticizing them or comparing them to your own children.

"Is life inherently bitter, or is it only bitter?" "Such is life."

If you do not live the life you desire now, sooner or later, you will only live according to the life you have chosen. Whether to change proactively or adapt passively is entirely your choice.

Why does it feel like losing everything, when it is merely someone who never belonged here leaving?

Those who are too casual about their personal image often see a significant drop in their charisma and social effectiveness. One should strive to cultivate a positive personal image.