The deeper a person understands themselves, the less shallowly they reveal themselves.
A snake moves silently, and a sinister plot leaves no shadow.
When throwing stones upward, be careful not to hit your own head.
No one will bring opportunities to you, nor will opportunities seek you out; you must actively strive for them. One of the habits of great achievers is: grasp opportunities when they arise, and create opportunities when they do not. Napoleon Hill once said: "The only 'luck' anyone can rely on is the 'opportunity' they create for themselves"—this requires perseverance, and a fixed goal is the starting point of success.
Interpersonal relationships are often not a zero-sum game where one must lose for the other to win, but rather a scenario where win-win outcomes are possible. Some people do not understand this, choosing instead to fight to the bitter end; examples of people ruining themselves in the pursuit of fame and profit are everywhere. Such individuals will never realize that sometimes, taking a step back can bring much greater benefits.
What makes us unhappy are often just trivial matters, much like how we can face an elephant but are bothered by a mere fly.
Interpersonal relationships are often not a zero-sum game where one must lose for the other to win, but rather a scenario where win-win outcomes are possible.