Experience is the most precious and priceless wealth in life. Along the journey of life, we encounter various events—some unforgettable, others fleeting. The experiences that stay with us, or even cause emotional turmoil, are the ones that teach us growth and maturity. Without rich experiences, one can hardly understand the true essence of life; only through experience can we truly understand the world and ourselves.
Many people are prone to complaining about the unfairness of the world, but ultimately, one's circumstances are the result of their own continuous choices. The real question is how to achieve the greatest value within limited material conditions. No matter how wealthy a person is, if they lack a broad mindset, they will eventually face decline. The scale of one's vision largely determines the direction of their life.
Life is like a play where we act out various roles every day. This play has no director and no scriptwriter. Some find the right role and live happily; others play the wrong role and suffer throughout their lives. Some, when tired, know what they want and find a place to rest, while others struggle desperately to keep playing their parts. Not every role is suitable for everyone. We may not be able to control others, but we can certainly control ourselves.
If you cling too tightly to what is lost, what you gain will lose its meaning. Time allows all living beings to gain through loss and lose through gain. The changing of seasons and the cycle of metabolism are living proofs. If you refuse to let flowers wither, you cannot taste the sweetness of fruit; if you cannot let go of past departures, you cannot embrace future happiness. Believe that departures are often an inevitability of life, and only what you possess in the present is truly your happiness.