Do not support those who use their strength to bully the weak.
Regularly speak of good deeds and praise the merits of others.
If you are hurt by a lost love, find solace in writing in a private diary.
Never judge others harshly. Since different circles lead to different perspectives, standing in different positions and angles will inevitably result in varying understandings and answers. Nothing in this world is absolutely right or wrong; there are only rules and the pursuit of interests.
A person may occasionally suppress their true nature to conform to society or others, but ultimately, one must live in harmony with their true self. To achieve happiness, you must understand your own essence and nature so that you do not attempt what is beyond your capacity. One of the most important things in life is to avoid environments that clash with your innate talents; otherwise, you may become inconsistent with yourself, and your inner self will be in constant conflict, turning your life into a prolonged tragedy.