In interpersonal relationships, mastering the sense of proportion, tolerance, and persistence is essential wisdom. As the saying goes, people strive for heights while water flows to lows. Only by climbing higher can we see further; with clear goals, we can accurately navigate the direction of life.
Life is rarely smooth sailing; unexpected events can occur at any time. Therefore, viewing the world with a serene mindset adds more joy to life. Angels can fly because they view the world lightly. The suffering and happiness in life often depend on our mental state: one thought brings pain, another brings joy; dwelling on things brings pain, while letting go brings joy. Happy people typically cultivate a sense of serenity, accepting things as they come, not imposing on themselves or others, and not opposing the world. Peace comes from non-contention, leisure from lack of desire, and tranquility from a broad-mindedness. Serenity dissolves all troubles.
On the journey of life, we often must traverse vast, arid, and rugged wastelands to enter the vibrant reality. I once thought the worst scenario was someone leaving me, but looking back, what truly saddens me is their unhappiness.