放手是为了更好地前行。

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6. A family built on an unhomogeneous marriage is like a castle on the sand; it may appear magnificent and solid, but it is always on the verge of collapse. Even without the attack of storms, it often collapses on its own. It cannot remain in a state of constant instability for long, and separation is merely a matter of time.

7. Three thousand strands of black hair fall at my waist, three thousand strands of dust fall on the ground, and where do the three thousand strands of worry fall? Words spoken without sincerity, my heart desires something, but where does it look? Flower petals fall, the clear breeze flows, silver light spills, sealing off the dust of this lifetime. Gazing at this silence, I feel a desolate chill, tears fall in loneliness. The torrents dug up flow endlessly. It turns out I am alone here, and the sound of my tears has drowned the rhythm of my heartbeat.

8. Letting go is for the sake of moving forward better. The good and the bad have all passed, the lucky and the unlucky have all been overcome. Life's encounters are like the rain outside the window; once it has rained, wet, passed, and gone far, it is gone. Keep the former beauty in the bottom of the heart, put former sadness in the back of the brain, neither clinging nor hating. The past is ultimately the past; that person, that matter, that feeling, no matter how much you linger, they are all clouds and smoke. Learn to let go; life always moves toward tomorrow through farewell.

9. I see and accept that I have painful feelings of being betrayed and deceived, thereby letting go of the need for it. Is it not just an emotion? When it comes, it will go. Do not avoid, hide, or suppress it. Just "allow" it.

10. Looking at worldly affairs with a detached eye, one knows that wealth and honor are like fleeting clouds. Using a contented heart to choose and discard things, one understands that all troubles are due to the accumulation of material desires.