该句使用了祈使句，通过并列的否定动词短语“complain about”和“blame others”强调了自我负责的重要性。
11. Do not complain about your fate or blame others for your misfortunes. Whether you choose a world filled with love and gratitude or one filled with dissatisfaction and suffering, it all lies in your own mind.
12. In all matters, proceed with a practical approach, avoiding empty fantasies and arrogant noise, and strive for truth with a solid and honest attitude. With this attitude, one can understand truth in study and achieve success in action.
13. A person's achievement is not measured by money, but by how many people you have treated kindly in your life and how many people remember you. A businessman's ledger records income and expenses; subtracting the two gives profit. A person's life ledger records love given and love received; adding the two gives achievement.
14. Every individual is unique and should recognize their own unique endowments and value. Do not overestimate yourself with blind pride, attempting things beyond your capability, nor underestimate yourself, failing to unlock the potential in your life's endowments.
15. When things are going well, prepare a backup; when things are going poorly, find a way out.
16. Even if a mouse falls into the ocean and struggles, it cannot be called a sailor.
17. The success of a strong person does not lie in defeating opponents, but in ultimately defeating oneself.
11、不要再去怨天尤人地抱怨自己的际遇，或者将自己的不幸怪罪到别人身上。选择到处充溢着爱与感谢的世界，还是选择充斥着不满与病痛的世界，全都在你的一念之间。
12、凡事都要脚踏实地去作，不驰于空想，不骜于虚声，而惟以求真的态度作踏实的工夫。以此态度求学，则真理可明；以此态度作事，则功业可就。
13、一个人的成就，不是以金钱衡量，而是一生中，你善待过多少人，有多少人怀念你。生意人的账簿，记录收入与支出，两数相减，便是盈利。人生的账簿，记录爱与被爱，两数相加，就是成就。
14、每个人都是独一无二的个体，都应该认识到自己的独特禀赋及价值。不要自以为是地高估自己，盲目骄傲，做出超出自己能力的事，也不要低估自己，不去打开自己生命禀赋的潜能。
15、人好的时候要找一只备胎，人不好的时候要找一条退路。
16、尽管老鼠掉在海洋里也能挣扎，但称不上是水手。
17、一个强者的成功之处，不在于战胜对手，而是最终战胜自己。
"In quiet meditation, reflect on your own faults."
"To understand oneself is the beginning of wisdom."
"Do not blame others for disappointing you"
"Introspection is not only knowing what you have done but understanding your true intentions"
"If you wish to test someone's patience, first ensure you have prepared your own."