句子通过 everyone 和 few 的数量对比，以及 change others 和 change themselves 的动作对比，突出了自我改变的稀缺性和重要性。
The reason people suffer is often that they are pursuing the wrong things.
It is less about others causing you pain and more about the insufficiency of your own self-cultivation.
If you do not create troubles for yourself, no one else can ever do so; for it is your own inner attachments that you cannot let go.
Manage yourself well, and do not worry about managing others.
Our attitude towards life determines how life responds to us.
Everyone is trying to change others, but few are willing to change themselves.
If you bought his opinion for a penny, you would still have change left over.
Courage is not the absence of fear, but the ability to stand up to fear and master it.
人之所以感到痛苦，往往是因为在追求错误的东西。
与其说是他人让你痛苦，不如说是自身的修养尚显不足。
如果你不主动给自己制造烦恼，别人也永远无法给你烦恼；因为你内心的执念，始终放不下。
好好管束自己，无需去管别人。
我们面对生命的态度，决定了生命如何回应我们。
每个人都在试图改变别人，却鲜少有人愿意改变自己。
如果你花一毛钱去买他的想法，还能剩下找零。
勇气并非没有恐惧，而是抵御恐惧、把握恐惧的能力。
"I have always been perfect at deceiving myself."
"If your heart is not calm, it is because you have not yet let go."
"In life, it is neither others nor calamities that defeat you; you are the only one who can defeat yourself."
"Ask yourself: do you intend to remain trapped in the dilemmas of the past?"
"Reflect on yourself instead of constantly focusing on the faults of others."