正是欲望的过剩导致了痛苦。

原文英文

Life is not inherently bitter; It is the excess of desires that causes suffering. The mind is not naturally weary; it is the inability to let go that brings exhaustion. Desire is like sand in one's hands: the tighter you grasp it, the more it slips away. Gains and losses are relative. When you gain, you may be losing; when you lose, you might actually be gaining. True detachment means abandoning illusions to gain enlightenment, letting go of the trivial to gain the significant, discarding falsehoods to preserve truth, and shedding the superficial to embrace reality. View things with a broader perspective and let things happen naturally.

Sometimes, past events must be allowed to pass. Only then do we create space for new things to enter our lives. Solitude and being alone are two different things. One can be alone without being lonely, especially if one enjoys the tranquility and the peace of solitude. Conversely, two people can be deeply lonely if they are unable to communicate, fail to appreciate each other's worth, or cannot share love and care.

Life is not always as expected, and not everything goes smoothly. Careers are not forever brilliant, journeys are filled with obstacles, and relationships have their sweet and bitter moments. Do not demand perfection from others or yourself. When the road is blocked, learn to turn; when knots cannot be untied, learn to forget; when tasks are difficult, learn to let go; when connections fade, choose to remain open.

Some memories, when recalled, bring warmth; some beauty, when seen, becomes scenery; some pain, when released, brings relief; some conflicts, when viewed from the right angle, bring comfort; some matters, when done with full effort, are complete; some mistakes, when forgiven, bring peace of mind; some disturbances, when taken lightly, bring no sorrow; some disputes, when ignored, no longer burden the heart; some trivialities, when let go of, bring lightness.