An old carpenter was preparing to retire. He told his boss that he wanted to leave the construction industry to go home and enjoy life with his wife and children.
Reluctant to lose such a skilled worker, the boss asked if he could help build one last house as a farewell. The carpenter agreed, but everyone soon noticed that his heart was no longer in the work. He used inferior materials and produced rough workmanship. When the house was completed, the boss handed him the key to the front door.
"This is your house," the boss said. "It is a gift for you." The carpenter was stunned, left speechless and overwhelmed with shame. Had he known he was building his own home, would he have been so careless? Now, he was destined to live in a shoddily constructed building.
Aren't we all the same? We often carelessly "build" our lives. Instead of taking positive action, we passively cope. We refuse to strive for excellence in everything and fail to give our best effort at critical moments. By the time we realize our situation, we are already trapped in the "house" we have built ourselves.
Think of yourself as that carpenter, and consider your "house." Every day, as you hammer in a nail, add a board, or raise a wall, build wisely. Your life is your one-of-a-kind creation; it cannot be demolished and rebuilt. Even if you only have one day to live, live it with elegance and dignity. The plaque on the wall reads: "Life is created by yourself!"