多留一些关爱给自己，你只会变得更好。

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In that moment, I was struck as if by a pin, filled with surprise. I had always assumed that the admiration and envy flowed only one way, from me to him. I thought I was the pursuer, exerting every ounce of effort to catch up to and approach the victor who seemed to excel effortlessly, while I had to struggle relentlessly just to get close. It turned out I was wrong. My persistence and hard work made him feel nervous, even envious, perhaps with a hint of jealousy of his own.

The stubbornness of our youth is somewhat nostalgic in hindsight. We often fought fiercely over trivial matters, acting as if life hung in the balance. While amusing now, that intensity was perhaps the best quality of that age. Have you ever admired someone who happened to admire you in return? Looking back at how you two silently competed, it might seem funny, but it also offers a sudden realization: you are quite good. When you envy others, they may well be envying you. You may be as excellent in their eyes as they are in yours. Why dwell in inferiority or self-pity? Reserve more care for yourself, and you will only get better.