Endurance is the code of conduct for Chinese people and the essence of Confucian thought in China for over two thousand years. Throughout Chinese history, many renowned figures achieved great feats by relying on the character 'Rend' (endurance). Today, many successful entrepreneurs and financial giants around the world also regard 'Rend' as the true scripture for self-cultivation, often hanging large scrolls with this character in their homes or offices. It is no exaggeration to say that endurance is a compulsory course for successful entrepreneurs, politicians, military leaders, diplomats, and scientists worldwide.
French scholar Breunag once said: "Seeing the stupidity of others, we forgive our own stupidity; seeing our own stupidity, we forgive the stupidity of others." These words provide us with an outlet for dealing with the world, teaching us tolerance and self-reflection when facing human weaknesses.
Love is often compared to a piece of precious porcelain. If a single crack remains, no matter how advanced the repair techniques are, it cannot be restored to its original state. Therefore, cherishing and maintaining the relationship is of paramount importance.
In ancient poetry, when discussing the emotions between men and women, the word "mutual understanding" (Xiangzhi) is used more frequently. In modern romance novels, however, the term "mutual love" (Xiangai) is more common. So, which is actually more important: understanding or love? This is a question worth deep reflection.
The wisest people in the world use the painful lessons learned by others (bumping their heads and bleeding) as their own experience. The most foolish people insist on learning only through their own painful experiences. Everyone has their own preferences, personality, and values in life. Do not demand others to meet your standards, nor look at people through colored glasses. What you cannot stand is not necessarily bad.
