The true source of pain is often not the past itself, but the memories of it. Beautiful moments are merely a fleeting smile that occasionally appears at the corner of our lips, prompting us to forget with a laugh. Wipe away the tears shed for yesterday, wave goodbye to the past, for love has already become history. The connections between people are complex: some individuals, after only a few months of acquaintance, feel more compatible than friends known for decades; others, though out of touch for a long time, feel closer in heart than acquaintances seen daily.
Life often plays jokes on us: the more you wait, the further something moves away from you; the more you cling to someone, the deeper the pain may be. Therefore, do not wait too excessively for things, and do not hold on with excessive attachment. Learn to let go of unrealistic waiting and attachment that leads to no result. Since everything is destined to change and nothing can be kept forever, only the happiness and joy of the present moment are truly graspable.
No matter how good an industry is, it is not suitable if you have no interest in it. You must find a balance between interest and livelihood, carefully evaluating your ambitions and needs; otherwise, your life will be filled with nothing but complaints and sighs. To be the master of your own fate, you must either be a leader, a guide, a teacher, or a parent, or simply become the master of your own life.
Learn to enjoy life and accept the bitter, sour, sweet, and spicy experiences it brings without struggling, for life has no absolute good or bad. The essence of life is not waiting for the storm to pass, but learning to dance in the rain.