In this world, there are plenty of talented "poor" people. They are highly educated, well-read, and even possess extraordinary abilities, yet why do some end up in poverty and failure while others without much talent achieve fame and success? Everyone has two shoulders and one head, so why are our lives so different?
You cannot change your environment, but you can change yourself; you cannot change facts, but you can change your attitude; You cannot change the past, but you can change the present; you cannot predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today. A simple, plain life is the true one. Flowers drift away and water flows on its own. Nothing in this world is perfect, so why bother yourself unnecessarily? Use a gentle smile to dissolve the sorrow in your heart. No matter what, never lose your mood.
Learn to be a smart person: You were not born into a wealthy family, and you do not have the destiny of a prince or princess. Do not try to play the role of a character suffering from illnesses that only royalty can afford. They have the time and money to grieve and wander in depression; you do not. You must strive, for you bear the weight of your family and life. Do not waste time on complaints and grumbling; nobody owes you. Do not compare yourself to the protagonists in soap operas, who are naturally beautiful and lucky. Only by being strong and facing reality with composure can you grow.
No one can predict the future of life. Therefore, do not push people too far or do things to the extreme. Leave room for maneuver and a way out. Let go of your ego to deal with people, and set aside your pretensions to get work done. Do not cause trouble when there is none, and do not fear trouble when it arises. Think positively about everything and maintain a good mindset. With a good mindset and an open mind, life will not be exhausting.
As the ancients warned: "Those who seek fame will surely fail if they indulge in lust; those who seek profit will surely lose it if they indulge in lust; those who manage a household will see it ruin if they indulge in lust; those in office will surely fall if they indulge in lust!"
Time is too thin, and the gaps between fingers are too wide.
