"What has discarded me, the days of yesterday cannot be kept." Yesterday is gone forever, and you can never turn back to relive it. Tomorrow has not yet arrived, nor can you peek ahead to see its sun. The life we possess in reality is only today, and it is always only today. To be more specific, your life is this very instant. Everything else does not belong to you.
People always start with good intentions, wishing to "pick the most perfect leaf." However, if one persistently pursues this in an unrealistic manner, one will ultimately suffer, until one day realizing that it is a net loss to miss many opportunities in the quest for that illusively perfect leaf. Besides, how many truly perfect leaves exist in life? Many tragedies in the world occur precisely because some people are obsessed with pursuing this ethereal perfection, thereby neglecting the simplicity of life. In fact, simplicity often contains much greatness and wonder; the key lies in the attitude with which you face it.
In relationships between men and women, it is often either a blessing or a punishment. You may thank God for letting you meet this person, yet also suspect that God sent this person to punish you. Why does only he bring you happiness and also pain? Why does your willful self willingly change for him? Why does the fearless you, who fears neither heaven nor earth, fear only him? The same person is both a blessing and a punishment.